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17-Jun-2009 | View Full-size Photo |
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ARDELEAN : CHESNUTT : KAUFMAN | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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6-14-09.. My 4th child Ginger Ardelean .... now named Allie Kaufman is living with me as well my daughter Phoebe/Beth Kaufman. I'm very happy they are here. With a few issues with Beth... it's still fine she has come. She has alot of growing to do, but,we will continue to help her. Allie is awesome. She is sweet, quiet, and very intellegent. :) 9-24-2007 I am doing very well with my children. 1 of my daughters are still a bit stand offish, but that is perfectly fine. She is perfect. I have 1 of my other daughters living with me---that is going wonderfully----I treat her the same way I treat all of my other kids. She came home and fit in just the way she should. And there were other things she has worked on to improve, and she's done very well with those issues. She is getting homeschooled, and she is getting into regular schooling soon. My 4th child is still living in her other home, she is so courious, so demanding, so expressive... I love her personality. She has things to work on as well, but she is motivated to do them. And as for their adoptive mom... I wish she'd talk to me, but chooses not to. I can respect that,but I guess when one lies when they could have told the truth the entire time..... --- well, I guess if I were that way, I would have reason to burry my head in the sand of shame too. She had not kept my girls safe as I had requested of her. She could have done better. And I thought I was bad?????? .... ummmmm not the way I thought I was. But still... no matter how I feel...I DO respect her in other ways. 5-2007 I am sooo happy to update that 2 of my daughters have gotten in touch with me all on their own as of 4-26-2007. I have 1 more to talk to and my life will hopefully be complete. The girls and I have been talking alot, and catching up on some things that need to be said and talked about. And after that,the other day, my fiance' and I went out to look at engagement and wedding rings!! My rings are bought and paid for, but have been shipped to Arkansas to get resized. Then I will get a phone call in 4-6 weeks to pick them up. My rings are awesome, very pretty. It is a 2 part set, and 1 ring has a 1/4 kt diamond and has 4 tiny ones set on each side of the larger one. The other ring is a band with 11 tiny diamonds in it! They are 14 kt gold rings. I got to help pic them out. I made sure the bill was put in my finace's name in case things should by whatever reasons collapse in our relationship, or if I decide not to marry ... then he can do with the rings as he wants to. It's just a precaution... just in case of anything. I would never keep his rings if that were to happen, I would let him have them back. He wants to get married within the next year.....I might make him wait longer. I want to be ready before I ever commit again. The last 2 weeks have been AWESOME!! ---------------------------------------- 3-16-2007 I'm moving to an affordable state....need more room for the 5 children Steve and I have together. And his adoptive mom will be living with us. All is good.:)lol I am still living in Aurora, Il. Have not moved yet. Moving is taking longer than planned. House remodeling is holding us up. We have to sell a house we living in before we can go anywhere else. But,it's still happening. I am moving closer to my 3rd child,but not in the same state she lives in. I do not want to upset her mom by living too close by. I would not want to upset my other girls' mom either. I compromise situations. I'm not a greedy person, or stuck up, or a mean one..........well, ok...a bit over protective over my kids and over Steve, but otherwise I'm ok. I'm a nice person all in all, and I am very open minded. I can get moody... it's the leo sign in me. I'm artistic,love to write,read,teach, love kids, love animals, I'm a ordained minister, have my high school diploma, and I am continuing my education. No, my reading and spelling and grammer is not perfect by any means,but nor am I. I hold no secrets about my past, and will admit to all I have done no matter how bad it was. I have a disability, but have come a long way to make it better. I'm nervous when I first meet people,and shy.... until I get to know people better. I'm always ready and willing to try new things. ------------------------------ I am waiting for my other 3 children. I am hoping someday to talk to them online, or by phone directly. I am leaving it up to them. If they do not want to meet me--see me--or talk to me, that is ok too. I'm not pushing or forcing anything, but I'm just saying I'd love to meet them again. I'd never force it, just offer it. The door is open if wanted. 10-5-2006 .. I am no longer in contact with their family, by their own choice, not by my own choice. I never broken contact,their mom did. They may ask their sister for more details concerning this if they'd like. Pamela A Chesnutt,Ardelean 9-25-2006 3-16-2007...all still stands. I still live in Aurora,Illinois Still planning to move out of state this next year. This last year's move got delayed again. Psunshine71@aol.com God bless, love Pamela | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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United States > Illinois > Kane County United States > Illinois > DeKalb County
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